The question is: what are you waiting to do if he doesn't propose? You kind of sound like you have options and you are waiting to accept any of them that comes forward first...hmn that's too bad!
There are a few things a man looks for before he pops the question:
1. Your respect for him, his time, money, family, and honest reasons.
2. Your confidence in handling issues both within and beyond your control.
3. Your ability to be confidential with his weaknesses among your friends and family members.
4. Your strength and organisational ability in the home.
(There could be more but let's rest it here for now).
Usually men tend to wait before poping the question not because they are not sure of themselves or finances but they are waiting for the lady to be ready.
My advice will be:
Be yourselve and be confident about who you are.
Do everything possible to be good to your man of choice. You must have considered him worth all the stress to be your choice. When you do, you will find out that you are not even waiting for him to propose but will be finding fulfilment together which will eventually lead to marriage.
I will advice you remove the time limit you will have to wait and be open to opportunities. Improve your worth while waiting and when the man you will find worthy comes along, give him a shot. Trust me girl, you deserve it.
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