Physical contact goes a long way
in deepening the bond between partners in a relationship whether married or
about to marry. It carries a reassurance that says: I am here; you don’t need
to go too far to get me. Telephone conversations will not give you this; this
is why it is recommended that in long distance relationships, there must be
sacrifice on both partners to make sure from time to time physical contact is
established.
Physical contacts for those who
are not married includes, holding hands while taking a stroll or talking, a momentary body hug when you meet, and leaning on his shoulder in the back seat of
the car. Care should be taken for those who are not married not to allow the
contact to linger so much to avoid leading you into temptation of sexual arrousement.
Physical contact for the married
include all those for the unmarried and also the following, a light kiss on the
forehead, leaning on his shoulder throughout the movie in the movies, lingering
body hug, a light caressing at the back while you hug. Never underestimate the
power of a physical touch in reaching out to your partner when hurt.
Next time you are having an
argument with your partner or guy, try this little move: reach out, grasp his
hand, and hold it for the rest of the discussion. Making a physical connection
can lighten the tension in a disagreement and promote closeness. It reminds you
both that you are still a couple in love. Physical touch is known to lower
blood pressure, and it sends a message: “We’re
in this together, and we’ll keep working until we find a solution we can
both embrace.”
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