#weddingplanner

Now that you have decided to marry, the wedding planning comes next; here are a few tips that will help you host an excellent wedding without spending you life’s fortune.

Spending so much for your wedding should be avoided by all means; yes I know someone will vary from my opinion  but it all depends on what is so much for you.

My point is simply from the philosophy of cutting your coat according to your size.

There are instances of the man who is an average income earner marrying into an exquisite family. This standpoint might not work for him because the wedding has to reflect the societal status of the bride. But care should be taken not to be hypocritical about this in displaying to your audience what you are not.

Back to my initial purpose for this composition. I am actually addressing the young couple who are trying to make something out of life with the opportunities they are currently exploring.

I am yet to consider and ponder, if any, the wisdom in spending a fortune for your matrimonial funfair when you have not had a picture and plan for the home you are about building from now till let’s say the next five years.

Building a successful home and family is not a function of a society wedding but solely a function of careful, honest and realistic planning by both parties.

The couple must sit down and declare their assets to each other, for this is the foundation upon which they must build. Each party must deal a card at the table, after all this is likened to a gamble-you never know what’s on the other end.

Enough of my mental conundrum; what are the steps to hosting excellent wedding ceremony?

   Plan to plan

   Writing down your plans

   Budgeting

   Announcement

   Seek for help

   Form a committee of friends

   Nip the bud on each logistics

Yes this is the subject of my essay, and you don’t expect me to finish it in one day, do you? Of course not, however as the series evolve we will continue and expand on each item on the list…stay tuned and don’t forget to leave a comment behind.

…to be continued!